Leadership

The vision that humiliates a leader

 

The prayers in the New Testament have to do with a heavenly state of mind in a heavenly people while on this earth. We are continually reminded that we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities and powers and the rulers of this world’s darkness.

 

The first thing to remember is to watch at the right place, the place where God has put us. Watch, that is, for God’s answer to our prayers, and not only watch, but wait. When God calls upon us to pray, when He gives the vision, when He gives an understanding of what He is going to do through us in our Sunday school class, in our church or home— watch.

 

How many of us have had to learn by God’s reproof, by God’s chastisement, the blunder of conferring with flesh and blood. Are you discouraged where you are? Then get on this tower with God and watch and wait. The meaning of waiting in both the Old and New Testament is “standing under,” actively enduring. It is not standing with folded arms doing nothing. It is not saying, “In God’s good time it will come to pass.” By that we often mean, “In my abominably lazy time I let God work.” Waiting means standing under, in active strength, enduring till the answer comes. We must never make the blunder of trying to forecast the way God is going to answer our prayer.

 

Chambers, Oswald. If You Will Ask: Reflections on the Power of Prayer (Kindle Location 444- 454). Discovery House. Kindle Edition.

I love this line from Oswald Chambers: “We must never make the blunder of trying to forecast the way God is going to answer our prayer.”

 

For those who lead forecasting is a danger. We are seduced by the talk of being visionaries. Our educators cry out, “Money follows vision. People follow vision. Without vision the people perish.” So quickly our leadership becomes not example, but telling — telling people what God is going to do. In fact before you know it, we are telling God what to do as well. That’s visionary idolatry.

 

Yes. Vision matters. Articulating a vision that truly corresponds with the kingdom of God is a humiliating experience. But of greater humiliation is waiting on God to move hearts.

 

Wait. What? Yes. Its of greater humiliation to wait on God to move hearts for that’s what the vision of the Kingdom of Jesus Christ requires: a vision of people touched and transformed by Jesus Christ. There’s so much here that I am not in charge of —I am not in charge of their heart. Church leaders we must be humble. To seek to dominate is contrary to ways of Jesus.

 

Yet, I believe we can lead with humble confidence. We can plant seeds of the Gospel. We can persuade and respect autonomy. We can create nurturing environments with a culture of grace.

 

And so we pray and we contend.
And so we watch and we contend.
And so we wait.

 

Its humiliating and necessary.

 

Colossians 1:24-29 (NIV)
24Now I rejoice in what I am suffering for you, and I fill up in my flesh what is still lacking in regard to Christ’s afflictions, for the sake of his body, which is the church. 25I have become its servant by the commission God gave me to present to you the word of God in its fullness— 26the mystery that has been kept hidden for ages and generations, but is now disclosed to the Lord’s people. 27To them God has chosen to make known among the Gentiles the glorious riches of this mystery, which is Christ in you, the hope of glory.

28He is the one we proclaim, admonishing and teaching everyone with all wisdom, so that we may present everyone fully mature in Christ. 29To this end I strenuously contend with all the energy Christ so powerfully works in me.

Why isn’t interdependence our vision of maturity?

 

Interdependence requires two things.

1. I am able to be dependable. In other words, its ok for someone to depend on me.

AND

2. I am able to be dependent. In other words, its ok for me to ask someone else for help.

 

I find interdependence to be a more exciting and compelling vision of maturity. Independence is an illusion. We are all dependent on someone for something.

Did I tell you about Monday?

Did I tell you about Monday, when I a wore a shirt inside out all day long and nobody said anything till the end of the day; till like 10 PM, “Did you know you shirt is inside out?” By that time, I had been a lot of places and had a lot of meetings.

 

I didn’t know.

 

It wasn’t a purposeful act of rebellion. It wasn’t even an act of style.

 

I just didn’t know. And to look closely — you would know.

 

So here’s what I’m left trying to figure out:

Did all those people who I sat directly in front of and talked with me for about 45 minutes at a time

also not notice or not care?

or feel too embarrassed to point out a problem?

 

Or maybe its me. Am I not approachable, accessible, and receptive to questions and criticism?

Have I created a culture around me that is reluctant to point out what might be wrong?

There’s a proverb that says, “He who builds a high gate invites destruction.” (Proverbs 17:19)

 

This is a problem. We live in a day when “our insides are out” a lot! Words are showing what is in the heart. But are we reluctant to do the Gospel work of inquiring about what is on display. It appears that criticism and truth-telling is considered disloyalty… even if the emperor has no clothes on. Perhaps the most valued capacity for the future is moral courage.

 

Well at least I had clothes on.

 

These are the things a leader must wonder about.

So here’s permission: next time you see me with my shirt on inside out, please tell me. I’ll appreciate you. I’ll probably go change it because it means I did my whole morning routine without my glasses, and didn’t notice!

You know who said something? My wife. She knows she has permission! Plus, she loves me.

 

I am a white ethnic and white supremacy is wrong.

 

Its my holiday and I don’t really want to be writing. But what in the world are holi-days really for?

White supremacists gather in Charlottesville.

 

The gathering of white supremacists in Charlottesville, VA at the University of Virginia over this past weekend screams out as reminder of the spiritual battle for human hearts. The delusion of race + supremacy powerfully overtakes the human heart and fills it with death. This gathering shed light on the violence we are capable of when identification as victims and a latent anger is mined by leaders. White supremacy is so wrong, its not right. It violates the Gospel of Jesus and opposes not only His teaching but His very identity. Sure, I don’t have to be offended that people I don’t agree with may have sought to gather legally under the guise of free speech and political discourse because of plans regarding a statue. However, I am offended, and I do have to advance that the notion of white supremacy which is motivating and undergirding these people is morally and theologically wrong.

 

Stepping out of my most segregated hour.

 

I am follower of Jesus Christ, I am a man, and I am white. I grew up in “The South.” But a research project twenty seven years ago opened me up to the power of the Gospel and the need to actively engage in its barrier-busting boundary-crossing work.

 

During my senior year at the University of Georgia, I was granted permission by the speech communications professor of my social movements class to unpack a question: Why are there so many different culture-specific churches when the movement of the Gospel is supposed to be the gathering of the ethne under Jesus Christ? I’m forever grateful to this professor who did not have to approve my “religious project” but took a chance on it anyway. I was exploring the questions of difference and sameness, unity and autonomy.  I was able to delve into the work of theology and sociology for the first time. And I was able to explore my own sense of race, culture, and language to appreciate the power these constructs hold in our lives.

 

At the time McGavern’s homogenous unit principle was the dominant influence in the church planting and missions realm. The idea of multi-cultural churches was just being explored in some urban areas. The American church was notable because of its most segregated hour status, 11 AM on Sundays.  This was especially true in my network of churches called the Southern Baptist Convention. Anything other than an English gathering was known as a “language church” or a “Black church.” I had never experienced the global array of “church gatherings.” I really only knew the gathering of either white middle-class people or white mountain people.

 

For a whole term I gathered Sunday after Sunday with a variety of churches and recorded my observations from participation in African American known then as “Black churches,” Spanish, Arabic, Russian, Vietnamese, Korean, and Chinese congregations. I was an outsider by language and culture, but I was also a member via our family connection in Christ Jesus our Lord. His body and blood purchased our inclusion in His Church. While my work was likely sophomoric, the experience and effort created a persistent and rich trajectory of cultural engagement and appreciation. From then on, I understood that as a white person I was also an ethnic, a member of the nations, a participant in a people group. I was just one among many in the world God is redeeming.

 

Becoming comfortable with insider – outsider experiences and the tension they create.

 

My awareness of the insider – outsider experience was weighted by the experiences of my parents. My Catholic father who had immigrated from Northern Ireland to Canada and then to the States as an engineer knew what it was to be an outsider. My Protestant mother who was raised in Appalachia but had traveled across the United States in her educational and work pursuits and taught in a diverse city school also knew what it was to be an outsider. Their stories shaped my childhood. I also had my own insider-outsider experiences growing up in a mostly racially segmented bedroom community of Atlanta. I had a fuzzy awareness that the KKK still occupied the county next door but my family would have nothing to do with it. All the while though, an unspoken question germinated in my soul,”Why is my church made up of all white people when our neighbourhood is not?”

 

My research paper for that Speech Communications course at UGA opened up a whole new world for me. I began learning how to wrestle with the tension created when my theological ideals and vision encounter sociological and historical realities.

 

Leading in racial diversity under Christ Jesus.

 

For the past 27 years, the ministries I’ve been called to lead have all graciously become or advanced as gatherings of people from diverse backgrounds. We have reflected in some ways the diversity of our neighbourhoods. I have been concerned and had to act on behalf of our members when they experience bias, whether it be inherent or aggressively active.

Adoption has also ushered me into the experience of being a minoritised and racialised family living in Vancouver. I have had to wrestle with the advantages “babylon” grants to those “in power” and the “disadvantages” built into her system often on the biases of race. I have had to wonder if my children would be harassed, disadvantaged, and even attacked because of the colour of their skin or their outsider status in some gatherings. And I’ve been able to delight in the imperfect but hopeful way the ministries I’ve been a part of have advanced the unity available to us at the foot of Jesus’ Cross.

The church has its unity in the blood and body of Christ. Our view of humanity is shaped by our common Creator who is the Father of All. And the Holy Spirit fuels active neighbourology in the Church by pouring HIs love into our hearts. I earnestly desire the members of Origin Church, where I serve now in the UBC campus to be thoughtful and active lovers of God and people. I grieve that members of our community feel the uneasy weight, threat, and pain of people motivated by the delusion of racial superiority and fear that they will be targets. I am angry that some in the Charlottesville crowd would dress up white supremacy as Christian. However, I’m not ashamed of the Gospel nor will I let shame keep us from having a conversation.

 

So lets talk about it.

 

Notes: I have been reading and there are several streams of thought echo here.

I break this fast in order to participate in God’s call expressed in Isaiah 58.

Russell Moore — identifies the Anger of Jesus and wonders if the church will be angry too.

Justin Tse — identifies the delusion these men are under and calls for prayer.

The WestCoast Baptist Association voted to denounce the alt-right and white supremacy.

Brian McLaren was in Charlottesville on the weekend and writes about his experience and observations.

UVA administration talk about their experience of the Saturday evening march.

Brene Brown went on Facebook Live, “we need to keep talking about Charlottesville.”

If Jesus doesn’t show up.

Photo Credit: Todd Diemer

Reluctance to lead can infect any of us at sudden notice causing us to loose our nerve. Crossing the threshold into leadership by showing up, speaking up, remaining warm but firm and pursuing righteousness and the Kingdom of God, takes us outside the comfort of our couch and screen. Jesus has called His disciples to be salt and light. We are on the King’s Mission in all our circles of influence. We are called to participate in a mission of grace and truth for the redemption of people. Impossible situations abound and God calls leaders into them.

 

Deborah, the prophet and judge in Judges 4 and 5, issued God’s call to Barak to summon an army from the tribes of Israel so they could throw off the oppressive regime of King Jaban and his army commander, Sisera. The odds were against them. Israel was living scared, avoiding the roads for fear. They had no standing unified army. They did not have sufficient defence against 900 chariots. If they showed up by the Kishon river in front of Sisera’s army, surly they would be routed. Unless… the Lord showed up.

 

Barak said he would go if Deborah came with him. We are like that sometimes so find someone to go with you if you are loosing your nerve. Some in Israel stayed away without a second thought. Some had much searching of heart, but stayed away too. Others volunteered willingly and joined Barak and Deborah in their stand against Jaban.

 

It rained. God sent the rain and the chariots sank and slowed in the mire and muck. The situation changed because God showed up.

 

What are you doing that won’t get done unless God shows? What are you aiming at that requires grace? What are you trusting Jesus for? Into what relationships, what circles of influence will you bring hope, forgiveness, kindness, conscientious and quality work, and the Gospel? Are you trusting Jesus to do something there, at work, in your neighbourhood, in your family, in a friend, that can’t be done without Him?

 

“Our Father in heaven, your kingdom come, your will be done, on earth as it is in heaven.”