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Separating Children from Their Parents and Romans 13

Did you miss the irony of a government official quoting Romans 13 to church leaders?

 

It happened because church leaders have called into question the US government’s policy of separating children from their parents. In Canada we have already seen the devastating impact and trauma caused by en masse policies of separating children from their parents. In fact, as a people we are slowly coming to terms with reality: The willful division of families as an effort to demoralize and project power on the bodies and psyche of another people is wrong.

 

The claim to ecclesial power and divine permission, even divine mandate, for such immorality is nothing new. So the church probably should not be surprised by the current claim by Jeff Sessions that they are wrong. That’s why he recently leaned on Romans13 to squash the mouths and conscience of church leaders. He may as well try to silence God.

 

Not surprised, but not taken in?

 

Romans 13. The bible does indeed say “be subject to the governing authorities.”

 

1Let everyone be subject to the governing authorities, for there is no authority except that which God has established. The authorities that exist have been established by God. 2Consequently, whoever rebels against the authority is rebelling against what God has instituted, and those who do so will bring judgment on themselves. 3For rulers hold no terror for those who do right, but for those who do wrong. Do you want to be free from fear of the one in authority? Then do what is right and you will be commended. 4For the one in authority is God’s servant for your good. But if you do wrong, be afraid, for rulers do not bear the sword for no reason. They are God’s servants, agents of wrath to bring punishment on the wrongdoer. 5Therefore, it is necessary to submit to the authorities, not only because of possible punishment but also as a matter of conscience.
6This is also why you pay taxes, for the authorities are God’s servants, who give their full time to governing. 7Give to everyone what you owe them: If you owe taxes, pay taxes; if revenue, then revenue; if respect, then respect; if honor, then honor.  Romans 13:1-7

 

But, Romans 13 is a more subversive text than the civil leader and the casual reader of Scripture may realize. And herein is the irony. Sessions is using the Apostle Paul’s letter a church immersed in tension. They were a diverse church that gathered in homes under the watchful eye of Rome in the first century. The Gentile and Jewish background members of these congregations were familiar with  the push and pull of the Empire. These congregations had probably been impacted by Emperor Claudius’ edict forcing Jews to leave Rome. Before the edict the churches likely had a strong Jewish cultural flavour and ethos. However, with the edict a more Gentile / Roman and Hellenized ethos prevailed in the congregations. Then in AD 54, the edict lapsed and the Jews began to return to Rome. This would have included Jewish Christians who would have found a gap between their expectations and their experience in the congregations of Rome. This conflict is the occasion of Paul’s letter to the Romans.

 

Paul expresses a pastoral concern for how these two cultural streams of Christians are going to get along with each other and with an Empire that has a love/hate relationship with them. Even as these believers declare, “Jesus is Lord” Paul seems to want to help them figure out how to be citizens and residents of Rome. He is helping them enter the tension between “Jesus is Lord” and Ceasar as the head of the empire. Romans 13 then does indeed affirm the gift of governance that maintains a civil society and the believer’s responsibility to the civil authorities. But Romans 13 also affirms a higher call and way: the call of Christ and the way of love. Paul continues on Romans 13:

 

Romans 13:8-14
8Let no debt remain outstanding, except the continuing debt to love one another, for whoever loves others has fulfilled the law. 9The commandments, “You shall not commit adultery,” “You shall not murder,” “You shall not steal,” “You shall not covet,” and whatever other command there may be, are summed up in this one command: “Love your neighbor as yourself.” Love does no harm to a neighbor. Therefore love is the fulfillment of the law.
11And do this, understanding the present time: The hour has already come for you to wake up from your slumber, because our salvation is nearer now than when we first believed. 12The night is nearly over; the day is almost here. So let us put aside the deeds of darkness and put on the armor of light. 13Let us behave decently, as in the daytime, not in carousing and drunkenness, not in sexual immorality and debauchery, not in dissension and jealousy. 14Rather, clothe yourselves with the Lord Jesus Christ, and do not think about how to gratify the desires of the flesh.

So whenever Christians hear someone call out, “Hey you, be subject to the governing authorities,” these same believers must also hear loudly in their consciences, “Let no debt remain outstanding, except the continuing debt to love one another.” When someone says, “Hey you, shut up and be subject to the governing authorities. Remember God gave us to you,” then the believers must also hear the Spirit of God say, “Love your neighbour as yourself. Love does no harm to a neighbour. Therefore love is the fulfillment of the law.”

 

For the true believer trained by the Word of Jesus, any mention of Romans 13 is code for “Clothe yourself with the Lord Jesus Christ.”

 

So why speak up? Why show up? Why can’t love just be quiet? Yes, sometimes, even most of the time, love must act quietly. However, at the intersection of citizenship and followership is a person: that’s you and me. We are citizens of a country and we are following Jesus Christ as Lord. At that intersection our lives and decisions are political. Commenting and protesting immorality, even immoral policies, becomes necessary if we are truly to love our neighbour as Jesus envisioned “your neighbour.” Taking seriously Jesus’ words on the treatment of children and His call to be the true neighbour requires that we cry out for the respectful and non-violent treatment of all those who cross our borders.

 

Romans 13  :  Clothe yourselves with the Lord Jesus Christ.

Reframe your work and make the most of it today.

photo credit - Nafina Putra

Reframing starts with the difference between “I have to” and “I get to.”  If you’ve ever met a person with an “I get to”  attitude you will remember them. You will remember them not just for what they do but for how they make you feel. One of my favourite check-out technicians at the Marine Drive Super Store in Vancouver gets it. Her attitude and joy is infectious. She greets every weary customer and makes the checkout experience fun or funny. She makes a difference in the stupor that so easily takes over the heart from the madness of grocery shopping.

 

“Get to” and “have to” — its a difference of attitude. You may be reluctant to tackle it, but as soon as you hear yourself saying, “I have to” its time for an attitude check. For some odd reason we all have moments when we love being in a crappy mood. In moments like that we are taking strange solace in treating ourselves as objects cast about on the sea of life. Fate has beset us and we live as if we are subject only to the constraints and hardships of our responsibilities. Like all emotional postures the “I have to” attitude can become dreadfully habitual.

 

It’s a terrible way to live! However, I’ve discovered a little shift in attitude can start the difference in my happiness, my relational trajectory, and the fruit of my labours.

 

It seems like the grind of routine can easily take over my life. That’s when I find myself muttering…

I have to…

  • get up.
  • go to work.  (Perhaps your story right now is different: I have to go to school.)
  • take this test.
  • make a lunch.
  • clean up and wash these dishes.


But I keep reminding myself, a shift is available to me!


I get to…

  • experience a new day. Its a gift!
  • make a difference in someone’s life.
  • grow through an artificial or a real-life challenge.
  • create order out of the chaos – at least for the moment.


“I get to”
is built on hope and purpose. The internal shift in language to “I get to” brings about an external shift in how we approach the work and treat the people who are with us now. Reframing starts with “I get to.”

 

Author, David Sturt, explores the power of reframing work in the book, “Great Work: How to make a difference people love.” Great work exceeds expectations and makes a difference people love. It can happen in any domain of life, but truly great work shares something in common; it begins with the internal mindset of the person doing the work.

 

As you will see, an “I get to” approach refuses to settle for a pragmatic definition of ourselves or our work. For example when another Sunday rolls around I could wake up muttering, “I have to go deliver another talk today.” (If you didn’t know, I pastor a church in the UBC campus community.) Or I could wake up declaring, “Wow! Today I get to go connect with some amazing  people and explore what matters most in life!” Are you starting to get the picture? You can reframe your own life and work.

 

Sturt’s book is a quick read with helpful and inspiring stories. Below are two videos exploring his ideas. The first video tells the story of Moses and the extraordinary difference he makes in the lives of children and families. And then the second is from David Sturt, the author, laying out his organization’s research and findings.

 

5 Reasons Your First Job Doesn’t Have to Be Awesome

Sometimes recent graduates from high school or from college can get stuck on the thought that their first job has to be awesome. Awesome pay. Awesome hours. Awesome people.

If you find yourself caught up in this kind of thinking its not going to help you move forward. Holding onto these expectations of awesomeness may cause you to miss out on great opportunities.

A first job doesn’t have to be awesome. A first job, even one that doesn’t pay a lot, gives you more than a paycheque; it gives you  opportunities to:

 

1.  Build up your work ethic. Show up, ready, on time. Learn how to bring a good attitude, even when you don’t have it. In other words you learn to be professional.

 

2. Figure out how to relate to a boss. You are going to have to figure out what your employer wants and how to deliver good service without losing your soul and identity to their good days and bad days.

 

3. Develop your people skills. Learn how to relate to customers or clients, fellows employees or work group members. Get to know what happens inside of you in a variety of situations.

 

4. Learn how to add value to an organization or company by aligning yourself with its mission and values.

 

5. Earn some money and learn how to pay the bills.

 

Finally, its a plus, when your first job gives you the opportunity to develop new skills and knowledge sets that can add to your career development. It’s possible to be more than a “cog in the machine.” As you settle in and show yourself to be responsible, ask for and accept responsibilities. That’s when a first job becomes awesome.