Why isn’t interdependence our vision of maturity?
Interdependence requires two things.
1. I am able to be dependable. In other words, its ok for someone to depend on me.
AND
2. I am able to be dependent. In other words, its ok for me to ask someone else for help.
I find interdependence to be a more exciting and compelling vision of maturity. Independence is an illusion. We are all dependent on someone for something.